What Sociologist's Have Understood The Family To Be
Because family patterns have been created through ideologies and
social processes, there has been great diversity across human
societies as to the meaning of Family. From foraging economies,
to peasant farmers, to our industrialized capitalist society;
family life has been forever changing. Family life has been
characterized by our geographic, social economic and political
differences, thus, the cross-cultural and historical variations
in our family patterns. There have been great discussions and
many writings on what 'The Family' is. The following is a short
summary of these views.
- It began with anthropologist Bronislaw Malinowski in one of his
writings in 1913; he believed the family to be a universal
institution.
- In 1949 George Murdock believed the family was composed of two
adults of the opposite sex who maintained a socially approved
sexual relationship, had children, who shared a dwelling and
where there is economic co-operation between the family.
After the 1950's, the beginning of social science, there
continued to be many differing views.
- Talcott Parson believed that the family was the best arrangement
for raising children, and rationalized gender inequality; the
stay at home mom and the absent father.
- Frederick Engels and Herbert Spencer also believed that women
were defined by unchanging biological, nurturing and reproductive
roles, and that social change was defined by men. The difference
was that they did not believe the family to be universal.
As time has changed so has the definition of family, which is now
seen as a unit bounded biologically, but legally defined, with
shelter, love and self-sufficiency. This kind of family is seen
to emerge in complex state-governed societies. Family is a moral,
cultural, ideological (set of symbols) unit, and is seen as
forever changing and a product of the different social orders in
which it emerges.
- Carol Stack's view is that family is a network of kin and non-kin
who are in continual contact and provide to the needs of the
children, and insure their survival.
- Rayna Rapp views family as an ideological concept (that only
married people are truly committed) and bring people together to
form relations of production, reproduction and consumption.
- Feminists Laslett & Brenner write of social
reproduction; people create social relationships to be
able to care for their children and other dependents daily, and
to ensure that the needs of the adults taking care of these
dependents are also met.
The kind of families we live in are infinitely varied, and are
guided by our ideological views, social processes, and social
relations. The family's symbolic opposition to work and business,
or the market relations of capitalism, gives shape to the concept
of family; by desiring a certain kind of relationship within the
family, such as:
- love, affection, and warmth, instead of coldness and indifference
- cooperation instead of competition
- enduring instead of temporary relations
- non-contingent instead of contingent upon performance
- governed by feeling and morality instead of law and contract
Familism is an ideology that also characterizes western
capitalist societies, and sees the nuclear family as universal
and necessary; the family as a set of ideas.
Included in family, are social relationships with special
emotional significance. As an example, gays and lesbians. Family
is known to them through:
- daily routines
- deep-rooted hopes and dreams
- shared life
- love, and
- a shared dwelling
Family would also include individuals who:
- share material resources
- provide daily support services
- have deep emotional connections
It would include individuals who are involved in the same
dependency and daily caring relationships as married people
sharing a dwelling. If these families were legally considered a
family, our public policies would then support these people too;
in their loving relationships, their rights to same tax
deductions, inheritance rights, medical decisions...
There has been a definite correlation in historical changes with
the organization of production (work) and reproduction (child
bearing and rearing).
Within foraging economies scarce resources were shared, and
decisions and child rearing were collectively made. Since there
was no inheritance to share, there was no social concern over
legitimacy of children, nor control on women's sexuality - thus
fewer number of births.
While with the peasant farmers, the households were the
organizing center for economic production. They had much wealth
in terms of property, and their inheritance was a major concern.
Thus, children were defined as legitimate heirs. As a result
women had more children, and their work was closely tied to child
rearing. There were powerful social controls on women's
sexuality.
Within the capitalist society the number of children per woman is
low and declining. These changes are due to the incompatibility
of waged work, and domestic responsabilities (child care,
emotional care, ...), not having the inheritance to pass on...
Parent's are thereby trying to give their children the emotional
and educational support necessary to survive their generation.
The home has changed from a place of work and family life, to a
place of family life and refuge from external pressures. The home
is now exclusively to relax, and take care of children. Work has
become external. Thus the private versus the public (state
regulated).
REFERENCES
- Bronislaw Malinowski, The Family Among the Australian Aborigines, University of London Press, 1913
- George Murdock, Social Structure, New York: Macmillan, 1949
- Frederick Engels, The Origin of the Family, Private Property and the State in Karl Marx and Frederick Engels: Selected Works, vol.2, Moscow: Foreign Language Publishing House, 1955
- Talcott Parson, Family, Socialization and Interaction Processes, New York: Free Press, 1955
- Herbert Spencer, The Principles of Sociology, vol.1, Domestic Institutions, New York: Appleton, 1973
- Carol Stack, All Our Kin: Strategies for Survival in a Black Community, New York: Harper & Row, 1974
- Rayna Rapp, Family and Class in Contemporary America: Notes Toward Understanding of Ideology, in Barrie Thorne and Marilyn Yalmon, eds, Rethinking the Family: Some Feminist Questions, New York: Longman, 1982
- Jane Collier, Michelle Rosaldo, Sylvia Yanagisako, Is There a Family? New Anthropological Views in Barrie Thorne & Marilyn Yalom, Eds, Rethinking the Family, New York: Longman 1982
- Helene Tremblay, Families of the World: Family Life at the Close of the Twentieth Century, Ontario: Old Bridge Press, 1988
- Jean Tetreault, Consultant, Department of Public information, United Nations
- Barbara Laslett & Johanna Brenner, Gender and Social Reproduction: Historical Perspectives, Annual Review of Sociology 15, 1989
- Bonnie J. Fox, Familly Patterns Gender Relations, Oxford University Press, 1993